Saturday, March 3, 2007

Party Girls: A slope of sadness

So some of you say really large in the opening paragraph "I'm a party girl..." The first thing you want thousands of people that live around you to know is that you are a "party girl". I'd like to know your definitions of what a "party girl" is (please comment them if you would).

I can tell you right now, unless you're doing lines of coke off your best friends navel and sleeping in a sink with a couch cushion, you're probably not much of a "party girl". I would say you're probably an 18,19 year old that likes to get "crunk" with your friends off of some wine coolers and six pack of the beast (Old Milwaukee) and play innocent hoot-n-nanner games.

People who advertise how much they enjoy getting hammered on a daily basis are what most people in society, FUCKING LOSERS! I've been there, I've done that, and I'd say that yes I was a loser. It's one thing to have a couple cocktails, or even get drunk as shit every once in a while, but to make a life style out of a bottle of captain's and six pack of bud is a very sad little life. Why would you want this for yourself?

It honestly makes me sad when I see all these profiles of these girls w/ all their friends just shitfaced all the time and they have kids. Besides the fact that you're putting your kids aside to go out, but what kind of example are you setting? Whether or not you want to believe it, it has an effect on them whether you want it to or not.

I raised a little girl for a couple years (it was a mistake because of how it ended but it was an amazing couple of years) and i could count on one hand how many times we went out and didn't take the baby with us. Two years, we didn't leave her alone with a sitter but a few times. And that was only because people made us. Because that's what parenting is, it's being responsible for what you've created, and taking responsibility for your child's life. That whole experience taught me one thing; you have one chance to mold a child's mind and one chance only. If you mess it up the first time, you've already messed that kids way of thinking for the rest of it's life.

To everything there's always an exception to the rules, but let's go with the majority on this.

Lets face it, it's NOT cool to be a bar whore, it's NOT cool to make a lifestyle out of "clubbing", and it's NOT cool to pawn your kids off on other people so that you can do it.

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